Being married is great!
It is so good to share life with someone. I love having a husband and he makes me so happy!
He has been so sweet and romantic. The other night we were so cold so he set up a bed in the lounge with candles and music and vitamin drinks in champagne glasses. He makes me gush!
Things have been really busy since we got back from honeymoon. I think it's taking it's toll. We had a big fight the night before last because I expected N. to have put sheets on the bed (that's one of "his" jobs around the house) and I got home really late. Somehow it escalated until we were both shouting and some really rubbish stuff was said. He said I was pathetic, hysterical, mean, demanding, controlling, that I treat him like sh*t and that he's disappointed in me. He said I shouldn't take my sh*t day out on him and I said I had had a good day and this was the sh*t part.
Proverbs 18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.
I know, that was a really awful thing to say. I am no angel.
It was a mess and haven't talked since. I'm sure things will calm down & blow over.
But I think we both know that our pastor was right about us needed to see a counsellor who can help us to talk and learn to fight better.
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