Couples councelling

We have started seeing a couples councillor.
She is good, she doesn't take sides. She lets us both talks and she listens. We talk about our fights and give our sides.


She was recommended by a friend of N's. He chose her which is good because it means he is more likely to stick with it. She is a Christian which is important to us because we are committed to staying together and she won't advise us to break up or anything hopefully!


When we go we feel better when we leave. We somehow feel more on each others side. It also feels proactive, hopeful, like the first step in a good direction.