Keep learning...

We're not talking. Nothing new. He still shuts me out. We still fight all the time.
But I can learn, I want to change, I want to be a better wife.


In the book Love & Respect by Emerson Eggerichs, it says that my husband cannot be responsible for both getting respect and loving unconditionally in the relationship, as I cannot either.
He must not have to get respect from me. It is my job to make sure he knows he has it.


I like that I have something I can DO. Something I can work on to feel proactive!
We learned in counselling also that we each are only responsible for our parts. We cannot make the other be better or different we can only make sure we are doing the right thing.


I guess that's why it was important for me to look at the names N called me and make sure that I was not those things.

We are called only to be obedient to God.