Learning...

This week in therapy I learned that I put pressure on N.
I had never thought of it that way, he feels pressure to show me love when I'm needy or I bring things up.


I must learn to trust in his love and not look for it or pressure him.


I have also been reading Love & Respect by Emerson Eggerichs.
It's REALLY good. It talks about how men need respect the way women need love. It's how we're made. And like love is unconditional, so must respect be. No matter what.
That is a big lesson for me and I am excited. I want to show N that I respect him in everything

Ephesians 5:33 The wife must respect her husband.